Gentleness



The king gave orders to Joab and Abishai and Ittai, saying, "Deal gently for my sake with the young man Absalom." And all the people heard when the king gave orders to all the commanders concerning Absalom. So the army went out into the field against Israel; and the battle was fought in the forest of Ephraim. The men of Israel were defeated there by the servants of David, and the slaughter there was great on that day, twenty thousand men. The battle spread over the face of all the country; and the forest claimed more victims that day than the sword. Absalom happened to meet the servants of David. Absalom was riding on his mule, and the mule went under the thick branches of a great oak. His head caught fast in the oak, and he was left hanging between heaven and earth, while the mule that was under him went on. And ten young men, Joab's armor-bearers, surrounded Absalom and struck him, and killed him. Then the Cushite came; and the Cushite said, "Good tidings for my lord the king! For the Lord has vindicated you this day, delivering you from the power of all who rose up against you." The king said to the Cushite, "Is it well with the young man Absalom?" The Cushite answered, "May the enemies of my lord the king, and all who rise up to do you harm, be like that young man." The king was deeply moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept; and as he went, he said, "O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! Would that I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!"

 

2 Samuel 18:5-9, 15, 31-33

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King David

from the Psalter of Jean de Berry

BEAUNEVEU, André

1400

Bibliothèque nationale de France

Paris

France

http://diglib.library.vanderbilt.edu/diglib-fulldisplay.pl?SID=20120810364654541&code=act&RC=46140&Row=16

 

 

 

 

 

 

We must learn to regard people less in the light of what they do or omit to do,

and more in the light of what they suffer.

~ Dietrich Bonhoeffer

 

 

Many people are alive but don't touch the miracle of being alive.

~ Thich Nhat Hanh

 

 

 

 

 

Keith Wilson Alexander

October 11, 1930 - August 1, 2012

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The funeral on Tuesday was just the way Keith wanted it,

and there was much visiting afterwards.

 

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Keith’s wife, Lotus McGuinnis Alexander

 

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Dottie and Jack Alexander, John Alexander

 

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Keith’s five children;

Koreen, Kenton, Kerin, Kevin, Keann

 

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Kenton with his daughter, Bridget.

His son, Hunter, had already left for work.

 

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Kevin with his wife, Anna.

In front, Kevin’s daughter, Brooke, with her 3½ month old son, Cameron.

 

 

The rest of the week has been filled with many activities …

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Kathi (Wednesday breakfast group) with her Austrian nieces, Lisa and Verena, at an art opening.

 

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Lisa and Verena, the girls from Austria, had some watercolor lessons

with David Cuin, and fused glass lessons with Danna Cuin.

They showed off their accomplishments at breakfast in Silver Plume on Wednesday.

 

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Sid and Tim with Sid’s mother at our Homeowners’ Dinner and annual meeting.

 

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Vicki, Lynn Wenger, and I had lunch at Aspen Peak Cellars in Conifer.

 

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Carolyn, Greg Podd, Brenda Hagerman, and Maria Camp at Rotary.

 

 

 

Desiderata

 

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be critical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.

Be careful. Strive to be happy.

~ Max Ehrmann *

 

 

 

 

August 12, 2012  Eleventh Sunday after Pentecost; 19th Sunday in Ordinary Time

 

Previous OPQs may be found at:
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*      In some reference books, Desiderata is still sometimes thought to have been 'found' at Old St. Paul's Church in Baltimore and to date back to 1692. It was actually written by Max Ehrmann and copyrighted by him in 1927, the copyright was renewed in 1954 by Bertha K. Ehrmann.

 




Jesus said to them, "I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never be hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty."

Then the Jews began to complain about him because he said, "I am the bread that came down from heaven." They were saying, "Is not this Jesus, the son of Joseph, whose father and mother we know? How can he now say, 'I have come down from heaven'?" Jesus answered them, "Do not complain among yourselves. No one can come to me unless drawn by the Father who sent me; and I will raise that person up on the last day. It is written in the prophets, 'And they shall all be taught by God.' Everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to me. Not that anyone has seen the Father except the one who is from God; he has seen the Father. Very truly, I tell you, whoever believes has eternal life. I am the bread of life. Your ancestors ate the manna in the wilderness, and they died. This is the bread that comes down from heaven, so that one may eat of it and not die. I am the living bread that came down from heaven. Whoever eats of this bread will live forever; and the bread that I will give for the life of the world is my flesh."

 

John 6:35, 41-51

Agnus Day, by James Wetzstein

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Agnus Day appears with the permission of www.agnusday.org

 

 

So then, putting away falsehood, let all of us speak the truth to our neighbours, for we are members of one another. 26Be angry but do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27and do not make room for the devil. 28Thieves must give up stealing; rather let them labour and work honestly with their own hands, so as to have something to share with the needy. 29Let no evil talk come out of your mouths, but only what is useful for building up,* as there is need, so that your words may give grace to those who hear. 30And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with which you were marked with a seal for the day of redemption. 31Put away from you all bitterness and wrath and anger and wrangling and slander, together with all malice, 32and be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you. *51Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children, 2and live in love, as Christ loved us* and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.

 

Ephesians 4:25–5:2

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Get Rid of All Bitterness

VALLOTTON, Annie

Ephesians 4:31

http://www.biblical-art.com/artwork.asp?id_artwork=26144&showmode=Full

 

 

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2 Sam. 18:5–9, 15, 31–33

Ps. 130

Eph. 4:25–5:2

John 6:35, 41–51